Mean Jean: Amateur Dominatrix

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Rate how happy you are with what you do out of 100 (100 being the best, 0 being devastatingly awful) on an average day.

At the very least, you will be asked to do this, and the rate you will be offered to do this will be much higher than for the “easy” stuff like foot play.There’s a big room with all sorts of fun supplies and furniture like a spanking bench and an examination table. When we spoke earlier, you told me that you were on your way down a new, completely different career path. Shesaidthemenwouldremainaddictedtohermoreeasilyiftheywerepermittedtojealously,agonizinglyandfrustratinglywitnessussharedeep,passionateandlongfrenchkissesonwebcam. I want to emphasize that my background and my experiences in sex work are really, really individual: I am someone who has never gone hungry or had to worry about getting her children taken away from her or felt coerced because she had no other options. Generally, these were doing things like toy parties on commission or working the renaissance faire (!

Sometimes me and the massage girls I know get into joking fights like that—”You’re so lucky, you don’t really have to touch the clients!And, of course, her hysterical and absolutely f*cking ON takedown of that Radar Hipster Hooker article. I'msureamajorityofsubmissivesaresensiblewiththemoneytheyspendonthisandarealsocapableofvotingwiththeirfeetforabetterqualityofservice. Also, when you remove that barrier that prevents modern man from being uncomfortable telling another person on short notice that they’re a little pig that’s useless to women, it apparently also removes the part that’s stopping you from unbridled, wordy road rage—”Oh, you f*cking worm—you little—how dare…” And a client gave me a super pair of boots once. The longest I have worn it is for 2 weeks, but I am hoping to finish the entire month of October for the Locktober challenge. I know a lot of dommes, and they don’t all have terrible pasts with abuse or “promiscuous” sex or have been dreaming since the schoolyard of beating up their male colleagues, although some do—and of those that do, some will say it’s the reason they did this, and others will say that it had nothing to do with their decision.

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Most of my friends know, most of the people at my college knew, and I am planning on telling my parents once it’s safely in the past—like, I don’t know, on my wedding day, or after I have a graduate degree. I’ve seen dommes whose partners are completely clueless about what they do but are planning on telling them, some that are planning on never telling them, dommes whose partners only want to know the basic details, dommes who have agreements with their partners on what they can and can’t do at work, dommes that work with their partners, dommes that can’t find a partner because of what they do, dommes that get dumped when their partners find out about what they do, dommes who have to stop working to save a relationship, and dommes who may date or marry a client—although that’s very, very, very rare! Several also did “foot parties,” which is a set up where a lot of foot fetish enthusiasts and ladies with nice feet meet in a very formal way, usually at a club or bar, to mingle with the hoped-for outcome of “mini foot sessions. Many dommes begin in a house to get a feel for the profession and build their skill/clientele base, often working as a submissive before they move “up” to switch or straight domme.

Remember earlier, how I said that I was lucky to have a partner who didn’t fetishize me or demonize me for what I do? Shetakespreciouslittleinterestinmeatall,andwhensheinformedthatshewasgoingtoshareapartofherlifethatshehasn'tsharedwith anyoneyet,I assumedIwasmakingsomeprogresstowardsanormalrelationshipwithher.Although I can usually leave work and feel back to normal by the time I’m done, I do need space in-between sessions to decompress. Beyond these stereotypical “nightmare” scenarios, there are all sorts of other coercions for sex workers to need to make sacrifices against their better judgment: for instance, college tuition or just needing to pay off consumer credit card debt. Nottomentionthatifamanweretodothishewouldprobablybearrestedfortargetingvulnerablewomenforfinancialexploitation,consentornoconsent.