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When Britney Spears sported her infamous “dump him” shirt in 2002, she probably didn’t envisage the knock-off versions that would flood the internet for the almost two decades that followed.Bahabahahahahabahahhahaha,’ as she shared a clip of herself on stage revealing: ‘I’m single now, you know. To realize that whatever they’re ‘putting up with’ in a relationship, whatever is causing them stress in their life, shouldn't be. You're already dumping him, so it's not necessary to give him a long list of everything he's done wrong. Later, after dumping a recent boyfriend, Florence decided to make her own version of the “dump him” slogan as a means of cathartic release.

For some reason, it’s always you who’s responsible for making sure nobody gets upset at Christmas, or your partner doesn’t feel rushed into commitment, or monitoring the shared bathroom’s toothpaste levels. Not only do we appreciate the cheeky take on Nike’s most famous slogan and the look of colorful embroidery on vintage denim, we also stan the deeper message. Just give him your reasons - say them kindly, clearly, and quickly - and express empathy toward him. All physical copies of DTWOF will include a 50+ page zine about the album made by us, including liner notes, pics, and more. If he's truly to blame - for example, if he's been abusive or he cheated on you - put your safety first and don't feel you have to shoulder any blame.But “dump him” is more than just leaving a partnership for the sake of it – it’s about giving women the power to get out of them without fear of the stigma that usually comes with being single. Keep your conversation short and to the point, which will help you avoid getting into an argument or reliving old disputes. In America, a report by the US Department of Commerce found that the number of women deciding to be “ homemakers ” after marriage in the past 40 years has reduced from 43 per cent to 14 per cent in 2016. With EGO, take your shoe and outfit game to the next level with our range of women's shoes, clothing, and accessories to make you stand out from the crowd. With experience in academic counseling and clinical supervision, Klare received her Master of Social Work from the Virginia Commonwealth University in 1983.