A 39-year-old petty trader, Yemisi Akinwunmi, on Friday pleaded with an Agege Customary Court in Lagos to end her 20-year-old loveless marriage to free her from pangs of daily corporal punishment meted to her by her husband. Soon after, Mr Boey left the bar to have supper with friends at a nearby restaurant while Lim waited for her husband at the bar.

A better alternative – where the whipping is to be administered in or on the bed – is for a man in my position to kneel and then place a pillow beneath his abdomen and send his arms directly back to grasp his ankles. Posted in caning, maintenance, whipping and tagged husband caned, maintanance whipping, wife whipping husband on June 2, 2011 by elliot. His pleas and promises fell on deaf ears as he followed me upstairs to the guest room where he went to face and receive a butt whipping with my belt. Protracted flogging by local mullahs of a teenage girl for running away from a forced marriage, 2010.I am sure since she would agree that since she has been caning me our relationship has grown much stronger . The cane’s bite comes from the combination of the speed it can attain as it is swung and the very small impact area. I am now lying stretched across our kitchen table with my totally bare backside at the mercy to this merciless woman and her cruel cane. Hannah has not used the willow or peach switch, as yet; but spring is around the corner and we live near an old orchard and willows abound. So in a way I like being forced as it makes me do a lot more than if the consequence was not there but at the same time I feel very disempowered.

Nothing here should be interpreted as advocating any non-consensual spanking activity or the spanking of minors. For the moment I will stay with the two bed positions but one other matter should be considered: should a lady bind a man in my position. Plus, and for stimulative and correction whippings this may be important, it protects the gentleman’s cock and balls where as the lady may very well want her strokes to include those areas. Curiosity got the better of her, and Pamela tentatively put out her left hand and lightly brought the cane down on her palm.

Ladies will, of course, have their own favoured positions for their gentlemen to assume when they are to be whipped. As far as I know, no one has found any variation in dick size between races, once you control for height. My mother spanked me with a hairbrush for as long as I could remember and from the age of 14 or 15, my father caned me.

Just as the cane can inflict almost limitless pain, it can also be precisely controlled to ensure that the pain is as required in the instant.The president of the court invited the estranged couple to his chambers for a possible resolution of the crisis. Testifying before Mr Phillips Williams, the court’s President, she said there was no love lost between them again. In which I am sent to my corner for punishment or meditation and the Lady of the House explains how obedience is a matter of routine and humiliation. By that I mean lets say she has asked (read told) me to do something - put the bins out, do the laundry, clean up the kitchen or whatever and I don't do it then after the kids go to bed she will tell me to lie on the bed and be caned.