I hope for now on you both make better decisions, and choose your friends wisely. Do this together, with love and compassion. Take a day at a time together. You both are victims and need to support each other.

It's important that you take some time for yourself and ensure you have a good support system around you through these trying times. Make sure you take a break and look after yourself. The Dos of Talking to your Alcoholic Partner about their DrinkingAbout five years ago, I started counting sequential rejections. I stopped counting when I was rejected for the 1,000 th time in a row. I have been trying to eliminate/minimize everything in my life that stimulates my libido. When I can no longer tolerate abstinence, I make exceptions and masturbate. Occasionally, I watch porn, but that has become boring. I focus on my breath and constantly work to sublimate my sexuality. At this point, I have done every sane thing that I can think of to reduce my own sex drive to as close to nil as I can get it, but it still intrudes constantly.

I dont know what to think here, my wife insists its not the case but did admit to flirting with him, those guys insist it was mutual. My wife doesnt want to file any case against them, and I am at a loss. Only one thing is clear to me, my wife put her friends sexual life ahead of our married life otherwise why go to a strangers house after midnight? That is clear to me even if everything else is a mystery.The stop-and-go method that your guy is currently using and underwhelming you with is recommended by Spitz. Something that your partner maybe hasn’t tried is pelvic-floor exercises in the form of Kegels which are often mentioned anecdotally as a treatment option but also have shown promising results in at least one study. Keep in mind that your frequent-ejaculation strategy may not work for him given the way the refractory period tends to lengthen throughout life. As many men age, it becomes more difficult to reload with even more stamina. There’s Something About Mary isn’t everyone’s reality.