The Cowgirl is covered in easy-clean PU upholstery and is built to hold up to 400 pounds. It has a 10-foot cord that is modeled off high-end music equipment.

For those concerned about burns, opt for a candle made for sex, such as JimmyJane's afterglow massage candles. These candles burn at a lower temperature, so you can enjoy the heat on your body without worrying about causing injury. 20. Vorarephilia Dominance and submission refer to a consensual erotic power exchange between two (or more) people. Although it may sound scary, due to consent and safety precautions kinkster engage in, a D/S scene can be safer than a vanilla hook-up. "Any time that we are talking about power control, that is the safest kind of sex that partners can have because there's so much communication, trust, and vulnerability built into these kinds of exchanges and sexual experiences," says sex therapist and author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life Dr. Holly Richmond. 16. Autonepiophilia Meiselas discovered that pain meant something different for each client — from physical pain as a means of relieving emotional suffering or as a way of absolving guilt, to pain as a road to pleasure. Each mistress-client relationship was distinctly unique. “I come to an understanding of where the person is psychologically and emotionally, and then create a complementary reality to play out the issues,” said Mistress Delilah. “I had a client who worked tremendously hard taking care of his family. I don’t think he liked his work. His life was just boring, repetitive, and hard for him … Perhaps unlike the pain of life, in session, there was a reason and reward.”Yes, pregnancy can be the result of sex, but it can also turn people on. Pregnancy kinks include a desire to get someone pregnant (sometimes known as a breeding fetish) and an attraction to pregnant people. "The former is one with an element of riskiness. There's a permanent potential to be forever with the consequences of unprotected heterosexual intercourse," says Renye. The latter may simply be an attraction to a pregnant body or could be a type of age play. 23. Tentacles To make it extra spicy, there’s a slot in the center of the seat where you can put an insertable toy and then sit your sub right down on it and hold them there with the restraints. The chair comes with a toy to start with that fits the slot but be warned that it’s quite realistic if that’s not your general toy preference. We believe that everyone has the right to explore their sexual desires and that sex should be a positive and enjoyable experience. That's why we offer a wide range of products that cater to different preferences, lifestyles, and budgets. From bondage gear and sex toys to lingerie and accessories, we've got something for everyone. There are six tie-down points total: two on the top, two on the upper platform, and two on the base. As we get older, our bodies are less happy to put up with the wild positions we used to love and certain furniture can adapt those positions to make them comfortable again.

It comes with a realistic TPE toy (not silicone so could be better but if you’re not sharing it, that’s not the end of the world). The toy has five inches of insertable length and a diameter of 1.5 inches. And if you’re not quite sure what that means, EdenFantasys has one of my favorite features of all time where you can view the item in Real Size by adjusting the size of the item to fit a scaled image held up to your screen like a US dollar and credit card. If you've ever hooked up with a stranger, perhaps even before getting their name, congrats, you've tried stranger play. "Stranger play is one of my favorites! When I was younger, I convinced myself that women found me attractive more for my personality than my body. So, a total stranger who doesn't 'know' me engaging in a specific sexual scene is really affirming," says Billy Procida, host of The Manwhore Podcast. 26. Emetophilia On entering, Meiselas was immediately drawn to the upscale loft’s intricately decorated interiors. Dubbed the “Disneyland of Domination,” each of the club’s themed spaces was designed around a different fantasy, from the sumptuous furnishings of the Versailles room to the cold, clinical feel of the ‘medical chamber.’ It was, however, the complex and nuanced relationships between mistress and client, playing out across this imagined landscape, that most interested Meiselas. As with Carnival Strippers, which had opened up an unseen world and in doing so challenged the preconceived view of women who perform in the shows, Meiselas was drawn to exploring the experiences and motivations of both the club’s visitors and its staff. The thrusting is controlled with a wireless remote and there are three speeds to play with. It comes with three different size realistic attachments, with battery-powered vibration. They’re surprisingly simple to switch for each other. The thrusting’s powered by eight C batteries, not included, and the battery for the remote is included. Custom work is our specialty – we are masters at taking your fantasy and making it reality. Whether a modification to one of our existing pieces or something totally different our experience and excellence in craftsmanship assures that the final product will exceed your expectations.

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Master R’s Dungeon Equipment started out over 20 years ago in Toronto, serving the BDSM community by providing playroom and dungeon furniture and gear. Vorarephilia is the infamous cannibal kink. It means getting turned on by fantasies of eating someone, and the subject has made headlines this year due to the sexual assault allegations against actor Armie Hammer. One unique thing I love that you’re not going to find in cheaper chairs with a similar design is that this one is height-adjustable. Depending on what you’re doing, height can make all the difference in your comfort depending on whether you’re looking to bounce or stay in to eat. The legs can easily be turned to raise and lower the seats and they even mark off the height for you so you don’t have to struggle with guessing to make sure all the legs are the same length. The seat can be as high as around 15 inches off the ground and as low as 11.8 inches. Quirofilia is one of those kinks that sounds more far-out than it is: It simply refers to an attraction to hands. Whether you go for big, hairy hands, or soft, dainty manicured ones, considering how much we use our hands during sex, it's a highly relatable kink. 22. Pregnancy

The only safe and consensual way to try paraphilia is to (consensually!) add it to your dirty talk. But, maybe wait until you know someone and their preferences before whispering, "I want to cook and eat you alive, honey." 21. Quirofilia There are cheaper versions of this type of chair but this is a solid, quality product for something you really don’t want failing on you in the middle of your night. BondageBox is a UK-based adult products company that aims to provide customers with high-quality, affordable, and discreet products. Our mission is to create a safe and comfortable shopping experience for those who want to explore their sexuality and enhance their pleasure. As always these stools are good for expanding positions as one partner can lay underneath while the other sides for all sorts of fun activities. The straps have great give to them so you can get a good bounce on without straining your knees. You don't have to stop playing make-believe when you grow up. Role-playing means acting out a sexual fantasy with your partner(s), either once or as part of an ongoing fantasy. While it can be a fetish or kink within itself, it's also a healthy way to act out other fantasies. For instance, if you have a medical fantasy and are aroused by doctors, you probably don't actually want your doctor to get sexy with you, because that would be creepy and abusive. The beauty of role-playing is that you can have your partner dress up as a doctor and indulge your fantasy consensually in your own home. 3. Foot FetishThis Spanking Bench is made right here in the USA using real hardwood and metal, so if you’re looking for a substantial piece that you can trust to be sturdy, this is for you.

You’re really only limited here by your imagination. Plus the chair is easy to assemble and then take apart again for storage. It’s built to hold up to 300 pounds. It comes with two different silicone attachments, one with internal stimulation and one without so there’s a little something for everyone. It has 10 vibration functions as well as many levels of intensity. I love that the Cowgirl is app-enabled so it can be controlled using a smartphone from up to 30 feet away. If you’re playing with your partner they can take the reins of your toy across the house. There’s also a wired remote for ease of adjustment with a 10-foot cord. Erotic humiliation lets you reclaim embarrassment by getting off on it. "Humiliation play is a consensual power exchange that is a very typical fetish. It can help people heal parts of the self that may have been bullied as a child. There's a sense of mastery over something that may have previously been non-consensual," says Renye. 14. Spectrophilia Group sex is getting it on with more than one person. If you've ever swiped on Tinder, you're likely aware that many couples are searching for a third, although group sex can mean more than just a threesome. An orgy is when a group of people of all genders have sex, while a " gang bang" typically refers to one person having sex with more than two members of another gender (while the term can have violent connotations, it's also used in the kink community to refer to consensual scenarios). 7. Sensation Play Of course, literally killing and eating someone is wrong. However, kinks and fetishes are already stigmatized; we don't need to pathologize this one if someone is doing no harm. "It is usually metaphorically, or an embodied feeling, rather than a literal translation," Dr. Richmond says. "Partners will often say, 'I could just eat you alive I’m so turned on by you,' but that's driven by an urge to consume the energy of eroticism and arousal more than a real or uncontrollable desire to consume a part of the human body. Obviously, if it moves into a compulsion or biting in a way that is not consensual, this is dangerous, illegal, and certainly not sex-positive," she adds.For more substantial pieces you'll need a dedicated spot or be willing to stash them in a closet or other storage area. Gag warning: Emetophilia is a sexual fetish in which one gets aroused by vomit. Yes, it's real, and it’s more common than you think. A lighter version of emetophilia may play out as finding it a turn-on if someone gags during a blow job. A higher octave version is simply getting wet for puke. 27. Klismaphilia Sensation play can refer to a huge range of activities based on the receiving or withholding of different stimuli. For instance, one partner may blindfold the other to deprive them of their sense of sight, a form of sensory deprivation, or they may drag an ice cube along their skin, a form of sensation play known as temperature play. 8. Orgasm Control With the addition of short lengths of chain, you can even create the 3D shapes shown in the images above by attaching the board to itself. Your flat bondage surface becomes a spanking chair or supportive wedge to bend a submissive over for all sorts of play. That’s where inflatable toys like Dark Magic come in. It inflates into this lounger (a foot pump is provided to blow it up) which holds the thrusting motor exactly where you need it. There are bolsters built in to prop your legs up and there is space on either side of these bolsters for your legs if you want to flip over on your knees.