At first, I was not interested. It did not turn me on and i did not see any benefit to me. However, he brought the subject up several times and it caused me to think again. Obviously, he was turned on by the idea; it seemed fair for me to play along — at least a little; for the sake of marital peace.

The work is done but not to receive a reward or to avoid punishment but for love. love to serve the person you love. Only about two to five percent of what he ejaculates is actually sperm. The real benefits of managing his ejaculation cycles is from his body reclaiming the fluids that are typically released along with the sperm when his ejaculation happens. This fluid comes from his prostate, seminal vesticles and is where the hormones and the real benefits come from. The only difference with a man with a vasectomy is that his semen will generally be clearer than a man who is producing health sperm. Your man will still feel the same discomfort and urges to ejaculate as a man who is still producing healthy sperm and most importantly, you will still get the same hormonal benefits. Should He Eat His Own?Another popular strategy is one based on earned releases, or even point based reward. These systems allow you to focus your specific goals for your man, such as housework, attentiveness, concern for your happiness, and general obedience. This method allows you greater ability to put off releases, and to insist upon higher and higher standards of service, as you are the judge of what merits adding or taking away of points. This method also allows for directly earned releases, where your frustrated man will agree to things he might be reluctant to agree to just to earn a release. As always, the important thing is to keep him highly motivated to obey and please you. I thought your readers might want to hear of a real life experience with a chastity belt that is still going on. I came in a matter of moments. A great sense of relief swept over me. My bottom was on fire and I was gander is also good for the goose, after much argument. What she doesn't know is that I have planned a

Day – Not much happens. Maybe some desire. Most men masturbate once or twice a day but it isn’t the end of the world if they skip a day since there isn’t much pressure to speak of. Daily masturbation is more of a habit, not a biological need. The answer to the second question is more complex. The short answer is yes, absolutely the longer you go at a time the more it will benefit you both. The long answer is it absolutely depends on the nature of your relationship, your progress into chastity control, his experience level, and of course his expectations based on what you have agreed to. It is, after all, important for you to live up to your end if you expect your man to live up to his. when I was out of town (which was often). We upgraded the gage to a stainless steal, full-fledged belt, Since I have been encased in my tube, and have had years of being in a state of partial erection, her Once your man has become a bit used to chastity, and perhaps even to his regular schedule of releases, it is a good idea to take them away on a whim, either here and there or even as often as you like. It helps to keep firm in your man's mind that chastity and release aren't about simple reward and punishment. Chastity is about giving you everything that you want, sacrificing simply for your happiness, and putting you in the driver seat of every aspect of your relationship that you choose. Release dates are only guide posts, you are the leader.Over time, you’ll be amazed at how much it will diminish his selfishness, take the edge off some of the harsher aspects of his masculinity, and improve his attitude. He will become highly motivated to please and keep you happy. He will learn and come to accept that your sexual pleasure comes first, and that his is secondary – and that sexually pleasing a woman very little to do with his penis. True pleasure for us comes from his attitude, willingness to help and be thoughtful. Sexually we get plenty of pleasure from his fingers, his mouth, and his tongue. During this time, he will become expert at eating you out and may actually ask you what you like sexually. You will also see that his sexual energy is redirected in non-sexual ways. Typically massages are offered willingly with no pressure or guilt when a simple shoulder massage doesn’t turn into sex. A Prince Albert, or PA, Piercing is for those looking to take their chastity play to the extreme. A PA is when you pierce the head of the penis, through the urethra hole to the underside of the penis. The piercing is then fitted with a traditional gauge style semi-circle ring.