To be honest I already know most of the things I've read here, If you have been in a few relationships, I'm sure you already felt what true love is, or not or you're able to distinguish what kind of people suits you more, I'm sure you've been hurt, made mistakes and learned from them. I'm sure you're well enough without this book, just keep doing what you're doing because the thing about it is that it tends to be pretentious not everything about it is true, not everything about it reflects every man or woman because we are different people, we react and deal with things differently. This book in my opinion seems to generalize every action and mistakes of a person and the meaning under those situations are more often than not true but some situations in relationships are more complex than the simpler reasons Mr. Amari Soul is giving us. But the thing is, you don't necessarily follow them just because the book says so, It's there to help you but it sure did not help me, there isn't a thing in this book that I don't already know. I would like to think I know what I deserve and what I want and what I also should be willing to give in a healthy relationship but this book certainly solidified some things for me as well as enlightened me on others. I was really compelled to read this because there have been a number of requests of this book in our local bookstores. This is a self-help book for those who are in a relationship and for those who are looking for one and wants some guidance as to how being in a mutual relationship is all about. I have nothing against this book, I mean yeah, a lot of things written here are really helpful for those people who seem to have no idea what they are getting into.

To be honest, I personally think that this book is more targeted towards the broken-hearted and ill-fated relationship. And it covers the topics well for the targeted audience and helps you to carry yourself and move on. Now I know I'm not the target audience ( strong, confident, overly sensitive and fragile woman :D :P ) for this book but I'd still leave a review just because I'm so tired of stupid people making all the men look bad without any strong arguments...So, if you're a good/okay person and not an asshole there is nothing new in this book for you.. The book should have started and ended with "Try not be an asshole". That's the gist of it. Reflections Of A Man is a book designed for both men and women to enhance the quality of their personal relationships.

Good publicity, too many sponsored posts and creative writing(Like literally creative with italics and all) brought me this book. This is a very easy and light read. I actually read it in one sitting. At long last, a magnificent full translation of Mann's untimely masterpiece . . . an obviously complex and profound work. Edit: Nah forget about the second star. I forgot to mention... this book contains all the wrong type of feminism. All these advices (let them be helpful or nah) might be given to men just as well. They, too, deserve only the best. They too can suffer from unhealthy relationships. They too can be emotionally and also physically abused. They too should never take second best. Plus, the author has dedicated space for both women and man to take notes about what they had done in their past relationships? What they should had done? What should be avoided in future relations to avoid unpleasant experiences?

In the book, mr. Amari Soul has given every possible guide to women about how not to lower their standards for any men and not to give up their individuality for the sake of relation. After all, a healthy bond means, your man must respect and accept you “the way you are”. He discussed such complexity — that every being faced while being with someone, in a mild way as if he is talking in front of us. When I started reading — Reflections of a man, the first thought appear in my mind was, who would invest such efforts? But as I continued I realized he guide men and women which is not very difficult (if one really wants to improve his relationship). Yes, a relationship is a full-time job. You can’t just leave it to a person and hope for the best. It is a 50/50 thing. Both parties have to play their part till forever as they usually do at the beginning. This is the only way to make it work. Keeps justifying every petty detail that's wrong with woman and somehow twists and molds it in a way that it's the man's fault! (just like a woman :D ) Reflections of a Nonpolitical Man] feels not just worthy of our attention but somehow indispensable. . . . The idea that we do damage to life’s most important elements when we use them instrumentally, for political ends, poses a real challenge to our moment, obsessed as it is with the political responsibility of the artist.