If the pegee is unaccustomed to anal penetration it's particularly important to get prepared, as the rectum is a sensitive area and one wrong move could ruin the mood. 'Before you dive in with your strap on, you’ll be doing your partner a huge favour by spending a decent amount of time (anything from 15-45 minutes) on foreplay in the form of anal massage,' says Sex & Intimacy Coach Libby Sheppard. If the pros of pegging aren't enough to convince you to strap on a dildo and thrust until the early dawn, hopefully our pegging tips will get you in the mood: ❤️ Set the scene The shaft has a rippled design that adds some stimulation and has an insertable length of 6.5 inches, so it is perfect for all but the most inexperienced users. At the base of the shaft is the bullet vibrator that offers multiple modes and speeds to choose from, plus it is removable for easy charging with the included USB cable.

This vibrating strapless strap on dildo is made of silicone, which is high quality, waterproof, and easy to clean. Inside the model is a vibrating motor that has 8 vibration patterns and 12 speeds to choose from. The buttons are on the bottom and easy to access, even when you’re in the middle of the action. You can also try out a set that includes more than one dildo, like the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit, so you can start small and move to the larger model when you`re ready for it. If it’s a vibrating dildo or a model with an insertable bullet vibrator What are our favorite features? We liked the suction base and multiple vibrations settings on the dildo. The wireless remote adds convenience and the adjustable harness ensures a snug, comfortable fit. The straps that are included should be made of durable materials that are comfortable against your skin, especially if you`re wearing it for a while. If it rubs against your skin, it will irritate you or cause you some pain and you may not want to use it as often in the future. The straps should also be adjustable and fit a range of sizes. For instance, the Pegasus Curved Realistic Harness Set has waist straps that can expand up to 67 inches, plus the leg straps are also adjustable for the perfect fit. Insertable and overall length

With anal, preparation is essential: lubricate well, progress first with fingers or anal plugs and then begin penetration, being mindful to control your speed and depth,' adds Dr Mafe. 'Do not hesitate to hold the dildo to guide the penetration.' ❤️ Experiment with positions

The sporty-style pant harness slips on and off like underwear. It's lightweight and breathable and moves with your body comfortably and securely. The stretchy ring means a variety of toys can be inserted and removed with ease.Inside the dildo is the vibrating motor, which offers 15 patterns and 6 intensity levels. It is also rechargeable, offering up to 60 minutes of use when fully charged. The included remote control is wireless, so either you or your partner can adjust the settings when needed. Both the shaft and the pony are posable for increased comfort during use. The light blue color is also pleasing to the eye and perfect for those who don’t like the more realistic models.

What are our favorite features? This stylish little piece has a lot to like. It has 2 lovely color options, both with firm ridges and a removable bullet vibrator. They are also waterproof for activities outside the bedroom. Once you've found it, gently massage the prostate in the same way you would attend to a clitoris, gently at first with increasing pressure until you find a natural rhythm. There are several different types of vibrating strap on dildos available, with varying features and designs to choose from. We do have some favorites, though.

It's worth trying to locate the prostate with a lubed up finger first, to ease everyone in and so you know what to aim for. If you are looking for a strap-on that comfortably fits a male body, then please see my Best Male Strap-ons guide.

When it comes to bum fun you can never have enough lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not self-lubricate which puts the delicate rectal tissue at risk of damage, so buy lube in bulk, apply liberally and keep it coming. 'Whether vaginal or anal, penetration should be carried out progressively and after lubrication,' says Dr Mafe. ❤️ Start small Why I recommend it: The Jaguar Harness is widely regarded as one of the sleekest and sexiest harnesses on the market. Its soft and shiny leather fits the body perfectly, making it the most comfortable leather product I’ve ever owned. You will look great and feel great while wearing the Jaguar. Overall, the Joque’s comfort and great design make this one of the best strap-on harnesses ever made.

The first stop on your inaugural pegging journey is to locate the prostate, a walnut-sized gland located just beneath the male bladder. The P-spot is fairly easy to access via anal penetration with a strap-on and stimulating the prostate is said to provide next-level sexual satisfaction for him, and fun taking the reigns for her. But resist the urge to plough straight into your lover's anus without pre-heating the oven first. Start small and work your way up to the main event: THE REVIEW: This is my first harness and I am so happy with it. It's soft velvet on the inside so it doesn't slip and the outside is so pretty! Comfortable Strap-On and Harness