I made it my goal to “break” and feminize my straight muscular professional husband Todd, and I did! Took me over a year but we now have a relationship I control sexually, and he’s SO turned on do8mg everything I ask! Want more sex and dating stories in your inbox? Sign up for Mashable's new weekly After Dark newsletter . Domestic discipline, as described here, is probably practiced in many more homes than you and I would ever guess. If you were to see my husband and I in a restaurant or walking along the street, you would never guess in a hundred years that I spank him regularly. I sincerely believe that if more wives practiced let their husbands know they were capable of administering a good dose of woodshed discipline, the divorce rate would drop drastically. Newbies who are starting out should take it slow and not dive in head-first. Things can go awfully wrong if the couple aren’t sure they would like it. Harry, 55, banker, London As I push the bounds of our relationship and my husband’s humiliation further , I find I want more and more. I want to push things further. How far can I go? Am I weird?

Of course, we also have deeply personal insecurities that play into this. For example, if you’re insecure about your penis siz e, you may enjoy small-penis humiliation play. Your turn-on comes from your shame being eroticized. How much to contribute to his 401K, which clothes to get rid of in the closet so we (read: I) would have more room. Since I believed I was smarter than him, this was only logical. 4. Shooting him disapproving looks. You want to know exactly what is and is not on the table because what works for someone may be highly specific. "Perhaps you like the words 'slut,' and 'whore' but don't like being called a 'bitch,'" Zane says. "You need to communicate that to your partner." It wasn’t until I learned to recognize my controlling behavior and make a different choice that the romance returned.Ready to dive in? Here's a list of some of the most common fetishes and what they entail. 1. Impact Play Arrange to have your initials branded on her ass and just above her clingy in public as a proof of her devotion and submission. Sometime in the past, she figured out that she could extend my suffering by taking one shoe off at a time. As her friends looked on in amazement, she worked my face over with the smelly foot then the clean one. Many of my clients are with controlling men. The 6 Intimacy Skills empower these women to honor their desires and limitations. Amazingly, the man ends up being inspired to become his best self too. I feel so supported and validated by all the women who are struggling WITH the Steps and with all the Work. I have been practicing the work and seeing amazing results for a while (2-3 years). But as soon as I miss a step it’s as if we never had an improvement. I feel like it all depends on me. Now he hasn’t spoken to me in over a month(It’s a searing pain just to write it) even though we still live together (it sounds unbelievable, right?) We pretend in front of the kids so they shouldn’t suffer. He realized and is very hurt that I don’t trust him. He betrayed my trust (He admits that). It was 3 years ago. He claims I wrote him off after that. I didn’t then, but stuff came up again and I am so anxious all the time. When I was practicing the Steps it felt great but not real. We are going for help. Nothing is helping. I have tried the Work again. I’m giving it up to G-d and praying for inner strength and healing for both of us.

i have been taken to the beach and she has had me wear one piece bathing suits in very feminine designs such as pink, floral etc. By the end of the summer my tan lines are also very noticeable. She also at times has made me wear a two piece suit. she really loves the stares and sometimes the comments that are made to me while on the blanket. BTW my wife lays away from me and observes everything. You know it’s not necessary that a sissy cums ever. They can learn and it becomes normal for them. They adapt Connie, it is so painful to have such a disconnect with your husband, especially after the changes you made. I really admire your commitment in choosing your faith over your fear. You don't have to stop playing make-believe when you grow up. Role-playing means acting out a sexual fantasy with your partner(s), either once or as part of an ongoing fantasy. While it can be a fetish or kink within itself, it's also a healthy way to act out other fantasies. For instance, if you have a medical fantasy and are aroused by doctors, you probably don't actually want your doctor to get sexy with you, because that would be creepy and abusive. The beauty of role-playing is that you can have your partner dress up as a doctor and indulge your fantasy consensually in your own home. 3. Foot FetishAvoid giving mixed signals which confuse them. This makes them uncertain of what to say or how to act. I do not want to physically hurt her, this is entirely consensual. This is something we have discussed and agreed between us. I want this type of relationship and power over my husband, it’s important for me. She is completely open to anything I want. People would ask him questions-doctors, waitresses, delivery people–and I would answer for him to make sure that everyone got the right information and impression of our family. 3. Making decisions for him, like… Give his male part a flamboyant female name…“Little dolly” or something try to use the expression in public. Later in the day, the guys jump in the pool and egg her on to join them, nearly begging, using the "we're all going to college somewhere and probably won't see you again" guilt trip on her. She agrees, and slowly, like a teasing dancer, peels off her shorts, to expose thong bikini bottoms. The guys were hooting and hollering all sorts of things at her. That's when I knew..No way in ** she gets out of that pool with anything on. They're going to strip her the second she dives in.

My mind immediately went to the most extreme possibility – was my husband a transsexual? Did he want a sex change? Where would that leave me? But Jason assured me that he had no interest in anything beyond wearing women’s clothes now and then. He said it’s a form of escapism for him and that he doesn’t want to do it in public or even buy his own women’s clothes. It’s not like he had drag queen ambitions and nobody in his life knew about this secret.All bank accounts and credit cards will be in my name only. You will get a weekly allowance that I will determine. You must get permission for all other expenditures.

Dominance and submission refer to a consensual erotic power exchange between two (or more) people. Although it may sound scary, due to consent and safety precautions kinkster engage in, a D/S scene can be safer than a vanilla hook-up. "Any time that we are talking about power control, that is the safest kind of sex that partners can have because there's so much communication, trust, and vulnerability built into these kinds of exchanges and sexual experiences," says sex therapist and author of Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma and Living a Passionate Life Dr. Holly Richmond. 16. Autonepiophilia

When I started practicing the 6 Intimacy Skills, I felt discouraged when I encountered resistance. I had done the old dance for so many years that it took my husband time to catch up to my new dance steps! Having the support of other surrendering women really helped me. I know he’s not hurting anyone and I guess at least I didn’t walk in on him having sex with someone else. He’s still the man I love more than anything in the world and, fingers crossed, we make it out the other end with our love still as strong as it was before.